Thursday, February 6, 2025

Help for Mending Clothes (or, To Mend or Not to Mend?)

Two things about me.  First, when I find clothes I love to wear, I wear them until they are almost threadbare.  Second, I really dislike repairing clothing.  These two facts are in opposition to each other, but I do mend clothes sometimes.  Until lately my thought was that mends should not call attention to themselves, should be as close to invisible as possible.  These days, along comes the idea that patches on clothes can be an accent, a point of interest, a fun way to show individuality.  I'm not quite there yet.  After all, how can a 75-year-old lady not look like a bag lady when she's walking around with patches covering her clothes?!  But I'm game to give obvious mends a try on the clothes I wear only at home.

I think these three books I found at the library are very helpful.  Mending is a popular topic these days!

Disclaimer:  To be honest, I did not read every word of every page of these books.  I used them more as reference manuals.

Make Thrift Mend. Stitch, Patch, Darn, Plant-dye & Love Your Wardrobe by Katrina Rodabaugh
a post about the book Make Thrift Mend and mending in general

Topics include 
  • making new, embellishing, making something new from used fabric
  • making natural dyes and dying clothes
  • mending, tools, techniques; darning knit clothing (socks, gloves, sweaters)
There are well-explained examples, clear photographs, and detailed how-tos for every mend and every process.  I was pleased to see she included mending holes, rips, or tears in crotches and underarm seams.

The author's choice to make, thrift, and mend is based on sustainability, ethical soundness, and creative satisfaction.


The Mending Directory. 50 Modern Stitch Patterns for Visible Repairs by Erin Eggenburg
a post about the book The Mending Directory and mending in general

Eggenburg's reason for mending is to honor the work of the many  hands who grew the fiber, wove and dyed the cloth, cut, and stitched the garments we wear. 

Yes, this book is primarily stitch patterns for both woven and knit clothing.  She moves from planning the mend, explaining how to patch, the tools to use, and then explanations of how to mend.  Following those explanations are large photographs showing the stitches and how to create them.  

Also included in a pocket at the back are iron-on transfers for each of the stitches. 


Mending with Love. Creative Repairs for Your Favorite Things by Noriko Misumi
a post about the book Mending with Love and mending in general

The author says, "Mending is love."  She makes sketches of ways to mend items of clothing.

She covers
  • Mending socks.  My mom taught me to darn as close to invisibly as possible.  These socks have bright, colorful heels, toes, and balls of the feet.  Lots of detailed instructions.
  • Mending holes and frays and to cover stains in ways that they seem natural to the item of clothing and blend in or enhance the item of clothing.  In this section, she covers felting to repair wool clothing.
  • Basic patching techniques
  • Covering stains with stamps
  • Remaking old items into some other useful thing
All of these include directions, photos or illustrations, and refer to the appendix of mending techniques.

Of all three books, this is the book that encourages me to mend the old clothes I have that I so dearly love to wear.  I have a silk/wool blend sweater that I've worn for years.  I've mended it many times, but finally, a year or so ago, a worn place from just below my collar bone and about six inches long appeared.  Do I dare try to mend it--a large mend right over my breast?  The sweater also has holes in the sleeves....   My underwear wear out after a few years and I can't buy the style I like now.  They are starting to have patches on patches.  Cotton socks, elbows in knit shirts,....

The most fun mending I've seen among bloggers is in this post (scroll down) at Cynthia's blog.  She's shared other mends but I couldn't find them. 

Do you have favorite clothes that you don't want to let go, and do you mend them?

--Nancy.

14 comments:

  1. Great post! I so totally align w your two things: wear clothes forever, esp beloved clothes, but do not like doing mending. I do mend tho--socks, much loved expensive Eileen West nightgowns, fave denim and linen shirts, elbows on cashmere sweaters. Not so much to be thrifty but bec I love these clothes. I did finally part with two very vintage [purchased new, 1985?] khaki cargoes this year. Frayed, mended, waists let in and out---love so much, great color, washed and so soft, wonderful pockets. But no. "Bag lady" came to mind. Also one of the pairs was so old the fabric was unstable. I was at the old hospital infusion place [closed 2012, so you get the age idea], I sat down for the nurse to start the IV, heard Riiiip. The pants spit down the side back from waist to knee. Ooops. Rscued and mended but the mend was deteriorating, the fabric rotted, failing at a touch. Oh well, old friend. I threw them out. On the other hand I caught myself the other day, putting an elbows out $7.oo t shirt aside to patch the sleeves---no, what? All that hand sewing. I cut the sleeves off instead. Life is short.
    Wish my library had great books like this.
    PS did you mend the sweater?

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    1. Yes, for me it's not to be thrifty but because I love the clothes and can't find any like them now.
      And unstable fabric is something I forgot to mention. I have several garments that will not hold a repair (and yet I can't yet let them go!).
      Poor you with the rip in your pants at the infusion place.
      I have not yet mended the sweater, but I haven't thrown it away yet, after maybe four years of waiting. I occasionally look for similar yard, at least a similar color, and haven't found any yet. I'll be forced to throw it away one of these days, I suppose.

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    2. Yes, for me it's not to be thrifty but because I love the clothes and can't find any like them now.
      And unstable fabric is something I forgot to mention. I have several garments that will not hold a repair (and yet I can't yet let them go!).
      Poor you with the rip in your pants at the infusion place.
      I have not yet mended the sweater, but I haven't thrown it away yet, after maybe four years of waiting. I occasionally look for similar yard, at least a similar color, and haven't found any yet. I'll be forced to throw it away one of these days, I suppose.
      I enjoyed looking at your Boro pinterest board. It'll be a great resource. Thank you, Lizzy.

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  2. PS you might enjoy a look at my Pinterest file on Japanese boro mending, https://www.pinterest.com/gonetothebeac/boro/

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  3. I haven't really done mending since my kids were little--when thrifting was a necessity for us young marrieds. I like the Boro style for mending and there are a lot of YT vids on this you may like....I would give the sweater a try--even if you only wear it at home..
    I wear a light sweater these cold nights to sleep in and it has a lot of little holes that I should mend...mind you, at any rate, I probably won't end up doing it...;))) I totally de-stashed my yarns as I can no longer knit so I don't know if I could cobble together the holes successfully...
    hugs, Julierose

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    1. Yes, minding in past years was (I think) usually associated with lack of money to buy new.  I thought that was so when I was little and my mom mended so many clothes but later I realized it was a choice not to spend money on new clothes when a little repair would work just as well. 
      I'm so sorry you can't knit or play the piano these days, Julierose.  A sad loss.  Maybe the holes are small enough that you could use needle and thread or embroidery floss?  On the other hand, if the sweater is keeping you warm as is, I might not mend it if it were mine.

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  4. When I can't find replacement garments, very definitely fix! I have a well-loved and well-worn collection of lovely (men's) large pure wool jerseys *(women's are just too flimsy) and have just fixed six of them...holes underarms, boobs, etc. Some fixes will only be worn at home, but the others have a new lease of life - at least for the upcoming winter.

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    1. I wish I had a collection of men's pure wool jerseys, shirts, etc. Usually when I find men's clothes that I love they are either too narrow at the bottom or too long in the sleeves or both! Good for you to mend yours even if you only wear them at home and they only last another year. Lovely comfort!

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  5. Interesting post. I don't darn socks and don't mend things that have clearly lived beyond their original purpose. I do try to use many items "one last time" for cleaning various items such as an old sock over my hand to dust and clean ceiling fans, and other polishing jobs, then they are thrown away. Old shirts and sheets can make great frost covers for vulnerable plants, etc. We all have our own ways of recycling don't we! I love to see Cynthia's boro patches too.

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    1. I'm sure there are hundreds of ways to recycle fabric, Pat, ways I've never thought of.  It's fun to learn how others use those almost-ready-for-trash-bin pieces of cloth.  I don't regularly darn/mend socks on a regular basis--just socks I can't find replacements for and only if the fabric isn't completely won out.

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  6. Cynthia is incredible with her patching made beautiful. I do mend, and it isn't always invisible, but that is usually on clothes that are only for around the home and farm. I finally told my son, who is our neighbor now, that this 3rd time patching his favorite pair of jeans would be my last on that pair. When I am patching over patches that were over patches, it is time to get a new pair, in my opinion--or he can learn to patch it himself. As I write this I find it interesting to realize that most of my patching and mending has been for family members other than myself. :)

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    1. LOL. It sounds like your son loves some of his clothes to death, Janet! Patches on patches on patches sounds like Boro to me, but that's probably not the aesthetic he's thinking of, just comfort! Do you think he'll learn to patch or buy new?
      Do your clothes not need patched because you are gentle with them or because you toss them/use them in some other way when they begin to wear out? I really don't know many people who hang onto clothes like I do.

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  7. I really dislike mending too. I do it more for people who don't sew more than I do for myself. Although I actually mended some torn lace on a nightgown just last night. I mend my husband's jeans but it takes me so long to get around to it than lately he has been mending them himself. His mending is not invisible, it always shows. I love what Cynthia does, it is so classy. My problem isn't really mending as much as altering. I have a tendency to buy clothes too big for myself thinking I will take them in or shorten the sleeves and I never do it. I do hem up all my jeans though.

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    1. Good for your husband to mend his own jeans, Robin!  That's impressive!  Mending is one of those jobs I put off as long as I can and sometimes just pass on the item that needs mended.
      Oh, altering clothes is beyond me.  In the past I've tried to alter patterns, or the clothes I make from them and it's usually a fail.  Hemming is probably the only alteration I feel comfortable to do.

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